To Make A Lasting Impression
How many times have you felt the
urge to impress a girl you've just met? I'm talking about the kind
of burning need that you feel, the compulsive urge that tells your
brain that you've got to impress this girl at any cost; the kind
of impression that leaves your imprint in her mind. Catch my drift?
For starters, you've got to be well groomed; appearance plays
an important role in the formation of first impression. Your
appearance is the first perception that anyone has of you, so,
your clothes speak for you to a certain degree.
Ponder on this: How many times has a well dressed lady caught
your eye when you are out walking in the streets? Well, you don't
have a clue about the lady and YET she caught your eye? so, what
she is wearing is the thing that is doing the communication here?
It is all the better if you come packaged with good looks and
a great body but let's get real, not many men are blessed with
that so; suffice to say that well groom is the way to go.
Once that is settled, you got to work on perfecting the art
of small talk. Small talk creates a window of opportunity for
you to make a lasting impression with the person you are talking
to. The one thing that you need to bear in mind is to stay clear
from the typical senseless drivel. Strive instead to be an interesting
conversationalist. A good way to start would be to scan the newspaper
headline everyday; newspaper headlines always make good conversation
Project yourself as an interesting conversationalist by choosing
topics of interest. These topics can range from current events
to an upcoming movie or concert. Take note that an upcoming movie
or concert would make an excellent prelude to asking for a date.
It would be great if you have a story to tell that relates to
the conversation on hand. Telling a story not only creates association;
it also piques her interest in you and subconsciously this association
(you + the story and conversation at hand) is being filed into
her memory subconsciously. As such, when she comes across the
same situation or object again in the near future, she would
be instantly reminded of you. Now that is the kind of impression
you'd like to leave a girl with.
It gets better if you can make her laugh? It'll put you on good
terms with her and she's definitely more likely to remember you
when you make her laugh. Laughter also makes her more relax and
comfortable around you as laughing releases the feel good hormone.
So, go on out there, tickle her funny bone and you are more likely
to walk away with her number and chances are she'll remember
you when you call.
All said and done, you still have to come across as being comfortable
with yourself when you are doing all these. Don't fake it! Women
can detect it? As long as you are yourself and not pretending
to be someone you are not, with a little humor, a dose of sensitivity
and a lot of confidence you'll definitely go places with her!
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