Inexpensive
Date Ideas
Dating and saving money.
For many, the two concepts don't equate. There's an automatic
reaction for most when suggesting the two
together that the person paying is trying to be "cheap" and the
resulting date will naturally have the same feel. Contrary to popular
belief, however, dating doesn't have to be expensive to be fun,
entertaining and memorable. It doesn't even have to take a whole
lot of extra preparation time. What it does take is a little imagination
and breaking from the typical date routine. You have to be willing
to think beyond dinner and a movie and be willing to try something
new for a change. Here are 15 inexpensive dating ideas: 10 for
anyone plus 5 for the adventurous.
Natural Scenery
The beauty of nature is all around us and it
doesn't cost a dime. Whether it's a trip to the beach, a walk in
the forest or a search into a cave, it can be done together for
practically nothing. Take the time to find the natural scenic spots
in your area and utilize them for your dates.
Sports
If you
and your date are both athletic, sport activities together can
be a great way to spend your time. Play a set of tennis,
jog in the park, toss a Frisbee about, play catch with a baseball
or football or shoot some baskets. Whichever you choose, you can
spend quality time at minimal cost and get some exercise in, too.
Picnic
Picnics
are great for dates because they can be taken along wherever
you
plan to go for the day and they cost a fraction
of going out for a meal. They also can be made as casual or as
romantic as you want. Take a casual picnic meal, add some cheese & wine
along with a red rose and the picnic instantly takes on a romantic
feel.
Historic
Places and Buildings
It
seems the only time people go looking at the historic landmarks
near where they live is when
visitors come from out of town. Many of these historic or culturally
significant spots have no or small entrance fees and make a great
place to go on a date. You also get to learn more about the area
you live.
Meal/Evening
at Home
Cook up a meal at home and spend the evening watching
movies or some other activity such as a board game. The
meal most likely will be better than at a restaurant and the evening
will cost a fraction of what going out to dinner and a movie would
cost. Cook the meal together to spend even more time together,
or do it yourself as a special surprise.
Memory Album
Take
your camera or purchase an inexpensive disposable camera and
make a day of taking photos together. Make a theme for
the day if you want or just take any crazy photo that comes to
mind. Once finished, get the photos 1 hour processed and create
a memory album together for the day that will live on forever.
Museums
If
you have museums in your area, they can be an excellent place
to enjoy an inexpensive date. Admission prices are usually
reasonable and often they have discounts for those attending a
number of events over the year.
Learn
a New Skill
Gather some information on a skill you always wanted to
learn and spend a day practicing it together. It could
be a day of learning card tricks, learning how to juggle or learning
to make bird calls. Any skill you have always wanted to try can
make a fun and interesting date.
College Events
If
you live near a college or university, utilize their resources
for your dates. Guest lectures, music recitals,
art exhibitions and plays are common and are often free of charge.
The quality can be excellent and the variety enormous.
Hobby Together
You
can set a regularly scheduled date if the two of you have a hobby
you both enjoy. You can look in the local
community newsletter to see if there are classes being offered
in something that interests both of you. These classes are usually
quite inexpensive and the two of you can enjoy a few hours each
week together learning something new.
For those who are looking for an inexpensive date with some adventure
involved, here are five more options that are sure to make the
evening memorable:
Local Thrift
Shop Date
Plan a date someplace where there are a lot of people.
Before going, head down to the local thrift shop
together. Once there, specify a small amount of money to purchase
clothing or accessories for the other and both head off in different
directions. The goal is to find items the other has to wear for
the rest of the day/evening within the price specified. The entertainment
is seeing the reaction from all the people who see your new outfit
as you wander the crowded area.
Follow Them
Date
As the two of you meet, you look around and pick somebody
out on the street. The date is to follow that person
where ever he or she goes. Once that person has stopped or you
can no longer follow them, pick another person to follow. Your
bound to have loads of laughs as you attempt to stay with your
designated guide.
Scavenger Hunt
Date
When your date arrives, have him or her make a list of what
he or she considers to be 20 unusual items. Once
the list is made, the date will be to try and find as many of those
items as possible.
Truth
or Dare Date
Pick some spots in your area to visit, but play truth or
dare along the way. It doesn't really matter where
you go since the entertainment is doing the various dares that
the other gives in addition to telling all the truths.
Bag of Dates
Put each of the dates I just mentioned, plus any
others that you come up with, onto a separate sheet of paper and
place them in a bag. When your date comes to the door, have him
or her reach inside and choose a piece of paper. Whichever one
is chosen is your date for the day/evening.
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Jeffrey Strain has published hundreds of money saving articles and the creator
of the Daily Money Saving Challenge Program. He is the co-owner of http://www.savingadvice.com --
a website dedicated to saving you money. Copyright (c) 2004, by Jeffrey
Strain - used with permission. |